March Blog
Now, I might not be popular with this blog; however, I can not wait for all the retrogrades, full moon, and eclipses all happening in March going into April. Retrogrades are a great time for the universe to highlight what is not working in your life anymore. It is a great time to break patterns and old cycles and to walk away from what does not add to your life.
It will be hard to face yourself as the truths pop up. What is happening outside of you will show you what needs to be let go of. However, see it as all these people and situations are showing you the mirror of what needs to be shifted within yourself. So before pointing fingers and saying it was your neighbour’s fault, go deeper and ask yourself why your neighbour is triggering you. Why have they mistreated you? And this is when shadow work comes into play. Dig deeper, and see where this has come from. Is it an ancestral, is it your parent’s pattern, is it a conditioning from society, is it from your childhood, is it a past life? There are many layers to how and when you develop a trigger or a pattern.
But not to get too deep in shadow work, this is a great time to listen to your emotions, your body, and allow these emotions to flow through your body. It is a time for self-care if you have been working and dealing with everyone else. Now is the time to turn it around and give to yourself. As the saying goes, if you take care of yourself, then you can take care of everyone. True, you are no use if you are sick or burnt out. See it as your body and your life needing a good cleanup of what we have allowed in our lives.
So it’s not all glam and doom as we clean up all the mess. There is always a reason, and that is to be open, clear, and confident to receive your gifts. Spirit will get rid of what and who can’t come with you on your next chapter. Now, I know that sometimes it sounds like the same story about letting go and forgiveness. This is going to be a big gift; you won’t even know what hit you. Be ready for the blessings. Trust yourself and trust in the journey. You and only you, with Spirit, will know what is the best for you. Let’s stop the conditioning of always listening to others. Yes, it’s great to have guidance and help from others, but remember to always listen to yourself, your heart, and your highest self, which is the source, God, Spirit, whatever it means to you.
What I do is I like to get my advice from others. Then I do my research, maybe online, go for lots of walks, swim as much as I can at the beach, and in winter, in the bush at an easy hike, no technology me and nature. I also go within to chat with Spirit and my divine team and my favourite I like to sleep on it before I make my decision. Once I feel comfortable and come to a decision, then I move forward. Sometimes, it’s scary to take the hard road against everyone else. However, you must always do what is right for you, and that is all that matters. If your decision was a bad one, never fear, it never is, there is no such thing as a bad decision. You are always directed by Spirit for a lesson that was needed to be learned so you would know better for next time.
As I write this, I get a very strong message that relationships will be the biggest highlight of this month- relationships that you have with others and with yourself. I say great, let people show their true colours. Also, I like getting real with myself. I never understood why people are so afraid to admit to themselves that you’re not always right, and yes, you have many faults just as everyone else. I see it as all of us walking around like headless chocks, having an experience that we can share with others. Always remember that you can not force your option on others, and it’s up to the individual to choose which path they choose for themselves, even if it’s frustrating. Bless this person for showing you their true colours, so now you know you can move on and make space for better people to come into your life or to up level yourself. Only do and say what is right for you.
Now, it doesn’t matter if you haven’t learnt something or broken a pattern. I get it; it’s hard to say goodbye or to change, so don’t worry. Spirit will always present the lesson again in a different form to always learn something until you’re ready to let go completely and move on.
“If you don’t succeed the first time, remember that life is full of opportunities, each attempt is a step closer to growth, wisdom, and success.”
Love, Carmela Silver Empress 🧙♂️👑